Article >> WHAT IS LOVE ??
You can't get life well in until you let go of your past failures and headaches. Everything is ok in
the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end. It's only the beginning...........
It hurts to love someone and not to be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally do meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. It's better to lose your pride for one you love, than to lose the one you love because of pride.
Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you. What do you do when the only person that can stop you crying, is the person that made you cry? We spend so much time looking for the right person to love... or finding fault with those we already love... when instead, we should be perfecting the love we give. Some thoughts are better left unsaid, some feelings are better left kept to you, but love has its way of expressing itself despite the silence. When you truly care for someone, you don't look for faults... you don't look for answers... you don't look for mistakes. Instead, you fight the mistakes, you accept the faults, and you overlook excuses. The measure of love is when you love without measure.
In life, there are very rare chances that you'll meet the person you love and who loves you in return. So once you have it, don't ever let go... The chance might never come your way again. Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance and you find that you still care for that person. You can't make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth. If you love someone, put his name in a circle, instead of a heart, because hearts can break, but circles go on forever.
One who loves you truly, always thinks good of you, likes everything you like, likes the place you are, likes the pet you play with, likes the way you walk daily, prays for your success and respects each thoughts of yours. One, who loves you, cares you, can sacrifice everything even the love for your good and your wishes. And don't ever disappoint them coz they have the strength to accept every decisions of the beloved one. How do you treat a person if he takes you as an inspiration? Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back.
Don't expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their hearts; but if it doesn't, be content that it grew in yours. If you love someone, set it free, if it comes back it is yours, otherwise it was never yours. It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Never accept love if you can't give yourself in return. Never start a relationship you know you'll want to end eventually. Don't go for looks, it can deceive; don't go for wealth - even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because only a smile makes a dark day seem bright. Love comes to those who still hope even though. They've been disappointed; to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed; to those who still need love even though they've been hurt before? The beginning of love is to let those us Love be perfectly themselves, and not twist them with our own image - otherwise, we love only our own reflection of ourselves that we find in them. You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave your past as you turn the pages of life.
Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you wants to do. Never say goodbye when you still want to try - never give up when you still feel you can take it - never say you don't love that person anymore when you don't really want to let go. Friendship beings with a smile, love begins with dreams, Life ends with a tear. The brightest future will always be based on forgotten past.
You can't get life well in until you let go of your past failures and headaches. Everything is ok in the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end. It's only the beginning........